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In the end, empathy isn't just about feeling—it's about being human together. In a world increasingly mediated by machines, our ability to truly understand and care for each other isn't just nice to have—it's essential for our survival.
Editor’s Note:
Last time we spoke about respect. This time we talk about empathy and its importance as a gateway to communication. A little bit of empathy goes a long way to understanding your friends and even strangers. It is the tiny (sometimes not so tiny) bridge into the future, enabling you to see, feel, hear the breath of humanity. Empathy, brushes aside prejudice and grievance and provides you with an inside look into what can bring joy and happiness as well as a feeling of togetherness despite the obstacles imposed by “outside” forces upon humanity. If we were invaded by aliens (not talking about immigrants) but true aliens from outside our earthly realm, we (mankind) would somehow come together and be united from this invasion. Maybe we need a good space invasion to pull us together. Perhaps empathy could rise to the occasion and enable us to rise above the fray and be a bit more “human” again!
Much Love,
Larry
Origins & Meaning
The word “empathy” is surprisingly young—appearing in English just over a century ago in 1909. It came to us from the German word “Einfühlung,” which literally means “feeling into.” While it began as a way to describe how people project their feelings into art, it evolved into something far more fundamental to human society: our ability to understand and share others’ feelings. Unlike sympathy, where we feel for someone, empathy means feeling with them—truly stepping into their shoes.
Beyond the Quick Click
This distinction matters now more than ever. In our world of screens and social media, we’re masters of quick sympathy—dropping a heart emoji on a sad post or typing “thoughts and prayers” when tragedy strikes. But empathy? That’s harder. It requires us to pause, to imagine, to truly feel what another person is experiencing. It’s the difference between scrolling past a photo of a hurricane survivor and taking a moment to imagine what it would be like to lose everything overnight.
The Power of Human Connection
Why does this matter? Because empathy is the invisible force that turns a collection of individuals into a community. It’s what makes us slow down when we see an elderly person struggling with heavy bags, or stay late at work to help a overwhelmed colleague, or check on a neighbor during a heatwave. Without empathy, we’re just separate beings occupying the same space. With it, we become a society that catches each other when we fall.
Digital Age Challenges
Yet today, this fundamental human capacity faces unprecedented challenges. Our phones ping with news of disasters from around the world while we wait for our morning coffee. We have hundreds of online friends but fewer face-to-face conversations. We can instantly connect with people across the globe, yet many of us feel more isolated than ever. The technology that promises to bring us together often keeps us apart in subtle ways—it’s easier to be cruel when you can’t see someone’s face, easier to dismiss someone’s pain when it’s just pixels on a screen.
The Modern Paradox
This is the paradox of our digital age: we’ve never been more connected, yet maintaining true empathy has never been more challenging. When we replace eye contact with emoji, handshakes with likes, and conversations with comments, something essential gets lost in translation. Our children might have more friends than we ever did, but fewer chances to read facial expressions, understand body language, or practice the art of really listening to another person.
Technology as a Bridge
Yet, technology itself isn’t the villain here. The same tools that can distance us can also expand our capacity for understanding—if we choose to use them that way. Video calls can bring grandparents closer to their grandchildren across oceans. Social media can give voice to those who historically went unheard. Virtual reality can let us experience life from perspectives we’d never otherwise know.
Finding Balance
The challenge—and opportunity—of our time isn’t to reject the machines that connect us, but to remember our humanity while using them. Each time we open our phones or power up our laptops, we make a choice: to scroll past or to pause, to dismiss or to understand, to react or to connect.
Small Acts, Big Impact
Maybe it starts with small acts: taking an extra moment to really read someone’s post before responding, choosing a phone call over a text when a friend seems down, or simply looking up from our screens to notice the people around us. Maybe it means sharing our own vulnerable moments online, not just our highlight reel, so others know they’re not alone.
The Heart of the Matter
Because in the end, empathy isn’t just about feeling—it’s about being human together. In a world increasingly mediated by machines, our ability to truly understand and care for each other isn’t just nice to have—it’s essential for our survival. Every time we choose empathy over indifference, connection over convenience, we weave stronger the human fabric that holds our world together.
Next time you’re about to reflexively tap that heart emoji, pause. Take a breath. Feel into what the other person might be experiencing. At that moment of genuine connection, however brief, you’re not just using the machine—you’re transcending it.
Lawrence George Jaffe is an internationally known and an award-winning writer, author, and poet. For his entire professional career, Jaffe has been using his art to promote human rights. He was the poet-in-residence at the Autry Museum of Western Heritage, a featured poet in Chrysler’s Spirit in the Words poetry program, co-founder of Poets for Peace (now Poets without Borders) and helped spearhead the United Nations Dialogue among Civilizations through Poetry project which incorporated hundreds of readings in hundreds of cities globally using the aesthetic power of poetry to bring understanding to the world.
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